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上海海事大学女研究生杨元元自杀事件是比“通钢事件”覆盖面更广更综合社会问题的宏大悲壮事件。
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女研究生自杀续:曾因没钱放弃到北大读研
2009年12月16日07:56郑州晚报
两条毛巾打成死结,一头套在水龙头上,一头套在脖子上,狠劲往下一坐……一个年轻生命的终结就这么简单。2009年11月26日,上海海事大学30岁的女研究生杨元元在宿舍自缢身亡,其亲属说她的死是个心理压力累积的过程。有网友评论说,她压根就不该带着母亲一起读研。因为家属和校方一直没有谈拢,杨元元的遗体在殡仪馆里躺了19天。昨日,她终于可以入土为安了。人们感喟之余也在深思,究竟发生了什么事,让这个挨过了多年艰辛生活的人在瞬间选择放弃生命?
她勤奋——自小懂事,生活节俭,刻苦好学,在大学曾任团支书,获甲等乙等奖学金,帮母亲分担生活重负。
她要强——做过多份工作,自觉挑起家庭大梁,带着母亲去读研。
她敏感——处事低调,自尊心极强,从不主动寻求帮助,很少与同学交流,有些自我封闭,处于无助和绝望状态。
她幼稚——曾郁闷地感叹没选择收入稳定的师范专业,愧疚没能让母亲过上好日子。缺乏心理疏导,易受外界刺激,一时想不开。
6岁丧父的她从小就聪明懂事
12月13日,杨元元的舅舅望建华说,他始终想不通外甥女为什么会如此决然地离开亲人、离开即将到来的美好生活。
1979年11月3日,杨元元出生于湖北省宜昌市一个工人家庭。在她6岁以前,家里始终洋溢着温馨祥和的气息,直到她父亲突然去世。“孩子以前性格很开朗,而且非常聪明。”望建华拿着元元小时候的照片说,外甥女是个极要强、上进的孩子,6岁那年她父亲得了急性黄疸肝炎,因抢救不及时去世了。杨母望瑞玲说,丈夫死后,原本美满的家一下子垮了。
元元自小就比较懂事,贫穷的家境并没有剥夺孩子少年时期的快乐。在现有的几张照片上,无论是元元坐在小溪石头上的,还是笑呵呵与舅父抓蛇的,都清晰地传递出她在少女时期所享受到的欢乐。
因没钱而放弃到北大读研
1998年,望瑞玲办理了内退手续。这一年,元元顺利考入武汉大学商学院经济学专业。当时望瑞玲的内退工资每月只有215元,好在元元上了大学可以申请助学贷款,这笔钱加上自己打点零工,能供元元的弟弟上高中了。2000年,弟弟杨顺顺也考入武大,望瑞玲为了省钱就搬到武大与元元住在了一起。
“我住在学校的一间值班室,住了很长时间。白天在学校里卖卤蛋、豆干、藕片之类的,因为儿子的宿舍只有4个人,所以我就在他的宿舍给两个孩子做饭吃。”望瑞玲说,学校考虑到她家的特殊情况,所以默许了这些事,她后来还卖起了米酒、小百货,每天可挣一二十元。
担任团支部书记的元元勤奋好学,2002年她考上了北大法律硕士研究生,但因没有钱而放弃了这次宝贵的机会。
30岁再次考上研究生,她带着母亲入学
2004年,望瑞玲所在的工厂要搬迁至宜昌市,35000元的安置费用,又难倒了一家人。最后,望瑞玲原来住的房子被拆,只好租住在外,直到今年9月12日,元元到上海读研。
2002年,元元从武汉大学毕业,在武汉现代英语培训中心任培训教师。2004年8月,由于工资一直不到1000元,她放弃了这份工作。9月份,她到武汉泰康人寿保险公司担任客户代表,但干了一年又辞职了。2007年,元元与6位昔日的同学一起办了一份情感杂志,她把自己辛苦攒下的几千元钱投了进去。由于缺乏媒体经验,这次创业也以失败而告终。此后,元元决心考研改变境遇。2009年4月26日,她考取了上海海事大学国际法专业硕士研究生。
自毕业后,元元一直和母亲生活在一起。今年到上海读研,她也带着母亲。毕竟在北大读博的弟弟2010年将毕业,带母亲到上海只是过渡。可是,来到上海后,一切却并非想像的那么顺利。
只能租到毛坯房,她陪母亲打地铺被冻醒
望瑞玲说,她住进上海海事大学24号楼506宿舍后,校方表示,不允许学生家长留宿,这是在违反学校的管理制度。后来,杨元元根据辅导员吴志毅的提议,给学校写了一封申请,希望学校鉴于其家庭的“特殊情况”,能为母亲提供一张床位和一份工作。但就在这个节骨眼上,意外发生了。11月26日,就在杨元元进校的两个多月后,她在宿舍的卫生间里自缢。
对于女儿的死,望瑞玲称,这都是因为校方不断逼迫她离开宿舍导致孩子精神极度低落所致。对此,学校予以了否认。那么,在杨元元死前的几天里,究竟发生了什么呢?又是什么令她骤然采取异常惨烈的方式结束生命呢?
“我们11月中旬开始找房子,大冷天,这地方又偏僻,房子不好找。11月20日晚上,一个女宿管员很厉害地对元元说,明天8点,你一定要把你妈的东西搬走,永远不要再来了。”杨元元的亲属说,当时元元很气愤,还和对方顶了几句嘴。21日8时,望瑞玲离开了宿舍,当天她在双港宾馆花100元住了一宿。22日,她又到学校礼堂坐了一晚上。23日晚上,房子终于租到了,但却是毛坯房,里面什么也没有,当晚母女俩打了地铺,睡到半夜被冻醒。24日晚上,杨元元坚持不回宿舍,又陪母亲睡在了毛坯房的地板上。
在这几天里,元元一直没去上课,她告诉母亲:“上课没意思。”11月25日那天,元元和母亲在食堂买了些馒头和咸菜吃。望瑞玲回忆说,元元告诉她很后悔当初没报考师范专业,要不现在工资一定很高,而且稳定。元元还跟母亲说起在培训中心当老师时,班上有名15岁的女生自杀,元元曾问母亲:“那女孩家那么有钱,怎么也会自杀?”
自杀前一晚,她还和弟弟聊母亲的近况
11月25日晚,杨元元没有和母亲回出租房住,母亲在宿舍洗完澡就走了。当晚元元和弟弟还互发短信,说起母亲的住处问题,弟弟并未感到姐姐有何异常。望瑞玲也没有想到,女儿会以悲剧的形式诀别自己。
事后,上海海事大学宣传部长彭东恺告诉记者,对于杨元元的死,校方也感到非常痛惜,并派专人安抚杨母。但截至14日,就责任和赔偿问题,家属与校方依然没有谈拢,而且学校主要领导一直没有前去与家属协商。为了15日的遗体火化,协商暂且搁置。对此,杨顺顺表示,不管谈判进展如何,他现在最想做的就是把姐姐安葬在父亲的墓旁。据《东方早报》《华商报》
引用网络文献或网摘:节俭好学懂事:贫困女研究生自杀续:曾因没钱放弃到北大读研
_周忠民_新浪博客
_郑州晚报
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